This is the second visit to my primal don in as many weeks. Each time I see him, he pushes me further and further out of my sexual comfort zone. I let him because he is far more experienced in the world of BDSM than I am and I’m keen to learn.
This way why, when he suggested gagging me with rope and using pegs on me, I agreed. I love nipple play. It’s one of the quickest ways to get me in the period and I’ve been keen for a while to use nipple clamps. My primal dom said there was no need for those fancy nipple clamps, good old fashioned clothes pegs would do just as well.
The pegs were attached directly to my nipples. Even laying down I could feel the weight of them tugging at my nipples. It started off as a sharp pain that became duller and duller as he began to use rope to gag me with.
Like the pegs this was the first time I’ve been gagged with rope. I’ve had hands over my mouth and knickers in their but never rope tided so tightly that I begin to drool and bite down.
The problem is, with the gag so tight I’m unable to speak and therefore to use my safe word when he decides to gently squeeze the pegs on my nipples. I feel a white hot pain shoot through both boobs and I attempt to push his hands away but he thinks I’m play fighting and tries to restrain me. It’s not until I start shacking my head and trying to get up that he reads my reaction and quickly removes the pegs. I have rather large nipples and still the pegs have managed to break the skin on both nipples.
My dom knows what to do and starts aftercare. He covers me with his bed sheets, strokes and cuddles me until I stop shaking. He brings me tea and orders me food and when I’m ready we talk through what had just happened.
I realise that this is as much a learning curve for him, as it is for me. As a new partner he is still learning to reading situations and discover where my boundaries lay and this experience made me realise more than ever, how important communication is between sub and dom.
I know my own body and he doesn’t yet. I know my nipples are incredibly sensitive and probably need less pinching and squeezing. Because these garden pegs aren’t adjustable, they aren’t as flexible and the pressure is, I’d imagine, greater.
Even with his experience mistakes can happen and for me this is all part of exploring the world of BDSM. Needless to say I won’t be using pegs again however, I haven’t given up on nipple play and may just be heading out to buy some proper nipple clamps as I finish this