I’m Back!


It feels like an eternity since I was last on here. I decided to take a hiatus from blogging and the world of social media and concentrate on my work and personal life for a while.

But so much has changed since I was last on here. The world is in the grip of a pandemic and our lives have changed beyond recognition for the vast majority of us. With 90% of our days spent inside, and the news filled with doom and gloom, I thought it would be the perfect time to inject some light relief back into our lives and restart this sex blog.

However, this won’t be the same blog is was before. I’ve decided to shift focus slightly and step away from discussing my personal sex life as I did before and focus instead on moving towards book reviews of erotic literature, non-fiction works with a sex and relationship focus and more broadly sex education. I’ll continue to do the odd sex toy review, as well as lingerie reviews but I won’t be modelling any of them I’m afraid.

I want this to be a welcoming space for all; a place where we can discuss sex, relationships and intimacy openly and without judgement. But I also want it to be an educational, non-stuffy environment that is accessible and fun. I hope you enjoy.

Cydney xxx

Kinkly’s Top 100 Sex Blogging Superheroes of 2019 – I made the list!!



I really wanted to share with you all my great news, I made Kinkly’s Top 100 Sex Blogging Superheroes of 2019!! I’m so overwhelmed with all the support I’ve received and I can thank everyone enough who votes, it’s very kind of you.

Creating a sex and lingerie blog was something that I thought about doing for a long time but it took a lot of courage to banish my doubts and the worries I had about what other people would think, and do it. So, to make the list with so many fantastic blogs, blogs I’d been reading long before I created my own, is wonderful.


I recommend you go and check out all the other blogs on the list as there’s some really good ones on there, with a broad spectrum represented.



Making Kinley’s Top 100 Sex Blogging Superheroes hasĀ  given me the motivation to keep going and creating interesting content because I really do love it, even on days when I feel like no one is reading what I’m writing.