When his mum rings during oral

I don’t seem to be having a great deal of luck on the sex front lately. I don’t mean that I’m not getting any, far from it. My mid-30’s have been my most sexually active and experimental years. Rather, I seem to be having one sex disaster after another. The week before last I accidentally ripped a man’s dick during reverse cowgirl and this week, disaster struck mid-way through oral.

 

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I’ll set the scene. I’d been speaking to a rather delicious looking Spanish pilot for about a week when he said that he was going to be in my city on Friday, that he was breaking up a long journey down south, had booked a hotel and wanted me to spend the night with him.

Our conversations had been sizzling. He was passionate and eager and I was so excited to see him and act out all the things we’d talked about in the bedroom.

We started off having a few drinks in the hotel bar before it became clear that we both had the same thing in mind and we headed straight to him hotel room.

Whilst I know many women love a man who is hairless, I prefer men with hair. It shows me that he’s comfortable with his own body and doesn’t feel the need to wax every inch of it. My Spanish pilot certainly had plenty of that and enjoyed running my hands all over him, stroking and touching the hair on his body.

I worked my way down his tanned body and started teasing his cock with my tongue. He started making a sexy grunting noise. Nothing turns me on more than hearing a man enjoying the pleasure I’m giving him. I edge him closer and closer until he can’t stand it anymore and pushes me back onto the bed, pulls my legs in the air and starts licking my clit. I can hear how much he’s enjoying tasting me and I can feel myself getting wetter and wetter….

Then his phone starts vibrating. He ignores it and resumes oral. The vibrating stops and then seconds later starts again. He leans over to see who it is and it’s his mum calling. “That’s strange,” he says, “it’s late in Spain and my mum never calls me at this time. Something must be wrong.” I tell him to take it thinking it’ll be nothing and we can resume oral.

He goes to the bathroom and takes the call and is in there quite some time. When he comes out he starts packing. His pregnant sister in Spain had been rushed into hospital and had had a miscarriage. This was the second time. I lay there shocked and struggling to find the right words to comfort him. Nothing seemed like the right thing to say.

He said he needs to travel back home, leave his car there and catch the first flight out to Spain. It’s 10pm and if he leaves now he might make it back to Scotland and on a flight. Then I was slightly taken aback when he told me that I needed to leave too so he could check-out. I’d been planning on staying the night with him in his hotel. I told him I was happy to stay in the room and hand the key card back into reception in the morning but he says he’d rather I left.

I was lost for words but I started getting dressed and packing my things. This was not how I’d envisaged the night going. Whilst I completely understood his desire to want to travel home immediately and be with his sister, I felt a little annoyed at being asked to leave as well, especially since I’d made a massive effort to see him. I felt selfish for thinking of my own pleasure but the way he handled it left me speechless, like a discarded piece of rubbish.

Whilst he did apologise profusely, I’d already made up my mind once he dropped me home that I wasn’t keen on ever picking up where we’d left off.

Thankfully, the Saturday and Sunday that followed proved far more fruitful on the sex-front. More of that in my next post…

 

Ripping dick – the perils of reverse cowgirl

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Image from Cosmopolitan

This week I ripped a dick. That’s right, you did read that correctly, I ripped a dick. I’ll be honest, I didn’t even know that was possible until this week.

Let me explain. A lover who I’d seen on two previous occasions came and paid me a visit. His particular preference has always been about using sex toys on me, preferably anal ones such as Thai love beads or my vibrating butt plug. However, since we’d been together a few times I felt comfortable enough asking for a little something different. I knew he could do kinky so I was keen to see if we could introduce some good old-fashioned vanilla sex into our love making. On top of that, after sex he’d usually have to leave straight away for work, whereas I prefer a greater level of intimacy with my kinky play. I spoke to him about what I wanted and he agreed to give it a try. He wanted me to ride him and agree to cuddles after sex.

We started off with oral; him on me, licking and sucking my clit and nibbling at my vulva. I enjoyed taking him in my mouth and I drove him crazy licking hat space between his balls and ass where his prostate is, so much so that he came over my first, the first time I’ve never let a man do that. I wasn’t as bad as I thought it was going to be besides finding some of it in my ear.

Whilst he was recovering, he played with me, teasing me with a glass dildo until he was hard again and told me to climb on top of him. I straddled him but it became clear after a few minutes that I couldn’t get into a steady rhythm so I decided to switch to reverse cowgirl. Big mistake.

Initially, it seemed to be going well. I finally found my rhythm and my clit felt stimulated. I let myself go and relaxed and really started going for it and as I wave of pleasure came over me, I leant forwards then back without thinking, a little far as it turns out. I felt what I thought at the time was him orgasming with a jolt but was actually him jolting in pain. On closer inspection when he pulled his foreskin back there was a small rip along the head of his cock.

I think it was safe to say we neve reached the cuddles part of the deal and I spent the rest of the time apologising.

It’s not all bad news, he did text me the following day asking if he could come again, as long as we never did reverse cowgirl again, and as good as his penis healed.

This incident also got me thinking about what other risky or slightly inadvisable sex positions were out there and I came across this article online in Men’s Health. You can read the full article here but as it turns out, cowgirl and reverse cowgirl are considered some of the most dangerous sex positions for men and their penises. I can also assure you that I took note of the other 3 on the list to ensure I didn’t rip, bend or generally put anyone else’s penis out of action: Men’s Health: 4 riskiest sex positions

I’d also love to hear if you’ve experienced anything similar with this position. Maybe there’s a sex position you stay away from after a bad experience. Do let me know in the comments box.